| Location | Leven |
| Age | 17 years |
| Date of Birth | 20/08/1985 |
| Date of Death | 19/06/2003 |
| Visitors | 3,034 since 20/04/2007 |
| Creator |
debbie kerr
19th june 2003
17
sales assistant
leven
1 younger brother 1 older sister and 1 very special niece Shauney
tragically
Debbie touched so many lives in her short time with us. she was loved by all who new her she had a
heart of gold when everyone thinks of debbie they think of her smile it really did light up the
room and our lives , so many people came to her funeral to say goodbye to her she was truly loved by
all who knew her
WE MISS AND LOVE YOU LOADS SWEETHEART xxxxxxxx
Another day for you to wonder, another day for you to mourn
It wasn't my intention to go before the comin dawn
My pain was deep within my heart and troubled head
it wasn't my intention to go without words said
My frame of mind seemed normal, or so i heard them say
It wasn't my intention not to see another day
I did not mean to make you suffer or cause ytou so much pain
It wasn't my intention to never see you again
Dispair and confusion left my aching mind unsure
It wasn't my intention to suddenly close lifes door
If only i could give you reasons and brush the tears away
It wasn't my intention to leave you and not stay
I did not mean for you to grieve now left alone to cry
It wasn't my intention to leave you, forever asking why
As the burdens of lifes worries slowly ebb from my heart
It wasn't my intention to tear your soul apart
A LETTER FROM HEAVEN
To my dearest family, some things i'd like to say,But first of all to let you know that I arrived
OK. I'm writing this from heaven, where i dwell with god above, where theres no more tears or
sadness , there is just eternal love. Please don't be unhappy just because i'm out of sight,
remember that i'm with you every morning, noon and night. That day i had to leave you, when my life
on earth was through god picked me up and hugged me and he said " i welcome you, it's good to have
yu back again, you were missed while you were gone, as for your dearest family they'll be by later
on. I need you hear so badly, as part of my big plan theres so much that we have to do to help our
mortal man" and god gave me a list of things he wished for me to do, and foremost on that list of
mine is to watch and care for you. And i will be beside you everyday, week and year , and when your
sad i'm standing there to wipe away the tear and when you lie in bed at night the days chores put to
flight, god and i are closer to you in the middle of the night. W hen you think of my life on earth
and all those loving years, because your only human your bound to bring you tears. But do not be
affraid to cry, it does relieve the pain, remember there would be no flowers unless there was some
rain. I wish that i could tell you of all that god has planed, but if i were to tell you, you
wouldn't understand. But one thing is for certain, tho my life on earth is over, i'm closer to you
now than i ever was before. And to my many friends, trust god knows whats best, i'm still not far
away from you, i'm just beyond the crest. There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to
climb, but together we can do it taking one day at a time it was always my philosophy, and i'd like
it for you too, that you give unto the world, so the world will give to you. If you can help
somebody whos in sorrow or in pain, then you can say to god at night my day was not in vain. And now
i am contented that my life was worthwhile, knowing that as i passed along the way i made somebody
smile. So if you meet somebody who is down and feeling low just lend a hand to pick them up as on
your way you go.When you are walkin down the street and you've got me on your mind, i'm walking in
your footsteps only half a step behind and when you feel that gentel breeze or the wind upon your
face, thats me giving you a great big hug or just a soft imbrace. And when it's time for you to go
from that body to be free, remember your not going, you are coming hear to me. And i will always
love you from that land way above, will be intouch again soon P.S God sends his LOVE.
STILL MISS YOU DEBBIE XXXXXXXXXXXXX
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ MISSED BY SO MANY ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
ALONE WITH MY THOUGHTS ALONE WITH MY DREAMS
FOR NOW I KNOW JUST WHAT TRUE SADNESS REALLY MEANS
SO LOST AND JUST FEELING SO DOWN WITHOUT YOU
I HOPE YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU
I KNOW WE USED TO HAVE A LAUGH I REMEMBER SO WELL
WILL I EVER EVEN SMILE AGAIN, ONLY TIME WILL TELL
YOU ARE MISSED BY SO MANY IT STILL SEEMS UNTRUE
BUT I CAN PROMISE YOU NOW WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU
IT SEEMS THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE AFRAID TO SPEAK YOUR NAME
BUT I CAN SEE IT IN THEIR EYES THEY CANNOT HIDE THERE PAIN
WHY YOU DECIDED WHEN IT WAS YOUR TIME GO
I GUESS YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON THAT WILL EVER KNOW......
copyright Ros Roberts
♥ღ♥ A Last Goodbye ♥ღ♥
Though happily each year began
I had to die whilst very young
It is so long since our last touch
And I miss your presence there so much
Of many things I needed to learn
So to this place God made me turn
Yet with so many things to do
I have taken this moment to speak to you
The life that was, was not to be mine
Yet within this world it has worked out fine
Where I am now I have found new friends
In a place called Heaven where the spirit ascends
Straight to this world few pass it by
And no one here can really die
Although this child you cannot see
I know you'd be so proud of me
I look forward to when I'll see you mum
So until it is your time to come
Enjoy your life
And please don't cry
I just came to say a last goodbye
Steve Franklin Palmer
CANNOT GET OVER LOSING YOU......
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU OF THAT THERE IS NO DOUBT
EVEN WHEN I AM FEELING ANGRY AND I SCREAM AND SHOUT
IT JUST A WAY OF TRYING TO DEAL WITH THE PAIN OF LOSING YOU
SOME TIMES A HEARTBROKEN MOTHER DOES NOT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO
YOU KNOW THAT DEEP INSIDE I AM HURTING JUST FOR YOU
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU MY BEAUTIFUL ANGEL NO MATTER WHAT I DO
NEVER THINK I HAVE FORGOTTEN YOU THAT WOULD BE SO UNTRUE
THE FACT OF THE MATTER IS I CANNOT GET OVER LOSING YOU......
Night time is here..
Darkness will fall
We will never forget you..
NEVER at all
You are always in our memory..
Our memory so full of love
You will always be our precious Daughter..
In heaven up above
copyright Jackie Thomas 06/09/09.
xxxxxxx One Wish, xxxxxxxxxxxxx♥
If i could wish upon a star ♥
♥ I would wish for you back here ♥
♥ I know you're happy where you are ♥
♥ But i miss you and want you near ♥
♥ Although i see you everyday ♥
♥ In my thoughts and in my dreams ♥
♥ I miss you more than words can say ♥
♥ It just gets worse, it seems ♥
♥ I try to be strong for others around ♥
♥ But all i want to do is cry ♥
♥ I just sit for hours by myself ♥
♥ And ask the question 'Why'? ♥
♥ It's the strongest pain I've ever felt ♥
♥ I don't think I could describe it ♥
♥ Although I try, I do my best ♥
♥ I don't think that I can hide it ♥
♥ My life will never be the same ♥
♥ That's why it's hard to bear ♥
♥ Because since the day you left us ♥
♥ I think that life's not fair ♥
♥ Some things seem not to matter now ♥
♥ Even things that mattered before ♥
♥ You have no idea what I would give up ♥
♥ To make this pain less sore ♥
♥ People say we'll meet again ♥
♥ And yeah I know that's true ♥
♥ But I wish it didn't have to be this way ♥
♥ Because you know how much I miss you ♥
♥ I love you with all my heart and soul ♥
♥ And there's one thing you need to know ♥
♥ There's not one person in the human race ♥
♥ That could ever take your place ♥
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3rd September 2009
☆•☆ A TENDER REPLY ☆•☆
♥ I Promise ♥
(Author Unknown)
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
I promise I will remember
How to live and how to play.
I promise that I'll dry my tears
When the heartache goes away.
I promise that it won't take years
But I need another day.
I promise that I'll live my life
As you would want me to.
I promise when I'm facing strife
I'll face it straight and true.
I promise I will endeavour
To do the best I can each day.
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
♥
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GOODNIGHT AND GOD BLESS.........
★ I picked a star to wish upon,from all the stars above,I closed my eyes and made a wish,to send you lots of love. xxx ★
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GOODNIGHT DARLING.........X
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The Pit of Grief
The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.
The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.
Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes, I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.
Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.
Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.
My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see, they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance, rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better, to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The 'person' who is emerging from the pit.
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